Neither of you should date that guy because it would end up ruining your friendship if one of you gets him and the other one doesn't
I asked the same exact question and the answer is no... You would be a bad friend if you acted on this...
If you have liked other people before and know what it feels like and you feel the same way about your best friend then you like them.
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You would willingly schedule time with a good friend. You would willingly cancel time with a good friend if your best friend was in need. You would loan a good friend a small sum of money. You would loan money to your best friend and not care whether you get repaid. You give of yourself to a best friend in the same way you would do for yourself - no reservation.
Then Tell Your Friend That You Like Him First If She Says She Liked Him First Then Tell Her To BACK OF! Or You Wont Be Her Friend.
If you have a gay friend, it means they are attracted to the same sex. If your gay friend is the same sex as you, they may or may not like you as more than a friend.
Then maybe your best friend is the one. Or if you are the same gender, then you need to like your boyfriend more or find someone else.
Sometimes we see what we want or what we would like to be but is just really not there. For future see things for what they really are and not what you would like or hope them to be.
Who ever is the one that is not asked out and it is your best friend you be happy for them and move forward. There are always other boys to focus your interest on - a boy is not worth losing your best friend over as you can always keep a friend longer than a boyfriend.
in my opinion you should try to find out which one you like better, and think about which person is more valuable to you and how it would be better if you chose the boyfriend or the guy friend.
tell them how you feel ! they might even feel the same for you if there your best friend they would understand.
Tell him! If he can't accept that, then he isn't a good friend.