What you do if you feel that you don't deserve a girl?

Answer 1

A specific girl or any girl? "Deserve" is a funny word. You can deserve stuff, but not get it - and you can not deserve stuff and still get it. If it's a specific girl it sounds like you think she's out of your league. You can a) ignore it, and her, and settle for someone more in your comfort zone; or you can b) change yourself - try to be a better person, get better grades, work out, be kind to people, pick up new skills like origami and aikido, generally be more active. Here's the catch: you can completely change who you are, put yourself on her level, and she still might not like you. That's not up to you - that's up to her. All you can do is be the best you possible - as active and smart as you possibly can, no points for slacking or feeling sorry for yourself. If you feel you don't deserve any girl you need to talk to someone more qualified than me. Those are not realistic feelings; that's like a pretty girl thinking she's ugly or a thin girl thinking she's fat. It's a distorted reality. Here's a comment you might want to think on, almost completely off topic. I used to work with a LOT of guys and they were always picking their girlfriends based on looks and cute behavior, then complaining when said girlfriends had no integrity, honor or self-discipline. If you pick a girl based on her face, do not complain when her personality disappoints.