dont be a slut . just follow your heart. dont keep cheating. drop the one you dont like more. and you dont like them the same. you know you dont. though there may be qualities you like in both, ask yourself which qualities you most desire in a man, which will not fade as you get older, which will keep the fire burning.
obviously that person is going to deny having a fling with your boyfriend
People's feelings can change. Either you are having your last romance or there will be another one after this one.
It's because you probly still have feelings for him.
Feelings can often be complicated. Having feelings for another person isn't necessarily bad, however, acting on those feelings while still with your boyfriend would be considered wrong.
Think about why, then try to improve thingsand if it does not work out then leave just do it gracefully.
yes you should tell him. there is no getting around that. the guilt will eat you up inside. and if you cheated most likely it's because something wasn't right in the relationship. your boyfriend deserves to know so that you two can go separate ways. it's not healthy to be in a relationship where you feel the need to cheat and your boyfriend goes on without knowing, you two would be having a relationship based on lies.
Do what makes you feel best in the end, just keep in mind that if you are worried about your man having extra relationships behind your back he is not likely to stop doing it,
This means that your feelings are for him are not secure. It can also mean you have feelings for someone else or even your ex-boyfriend. If you are unsure about your feelings for him, he needs to know so that he does not feel led on or betrayed.
Spend less time talking/hanging out with their boyfriend, and eventually your feelings for him will diminish. You're not a bad person for having feelings, but you would be a bad person for acting on them even though you know he's taken.
This is precisely the situation I have found myself in today, and I have come to the conclusion that although it hurts, I cannot stop my boyfriend from having feelings for someone else. But he also has feelings for me, and these are the feelings which count.
Its honestly not your fault for having feelings for her boyfriend, but I would, if I were you, try to stay away. IF AND ONLY IF you cannot help it..... well... tell your friend, and if she starts getting mean and stuff, then...
It is important to have an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about his thoughts and feelings regarding having a baby. Communication is key in understanding each other's desires and making decisions about starting a family.