You can ask a good family friend who knew the deceased to do the eulogy. I think most people would understand if you don't do the eulogy. Are you expected to do the eulogy?
As for writing the eulogy I have no really practical advice to give. The link below might give you some more information that you might consider.
Generally no. However, in cases of the emotional abuse of a child, the authorities might remove the child from that home.
Parents can write for a minor child. A spouse writes for a spouse; an oldest child writes for a parent. OR many people contribute to it. OR the funeral home gives the info to the newspaper and newspaper staff writes it.
cause someone writes it for them
He writes about it in A Child Called It
I note you say "their" child and not "your" child. If the child is not yours how can it be used as an emotional weapon against you , it is not related to you.
The sorrow derives from the emotional attachment that a child has with a caregiver. The loss of a person with whom you have an emotional attachment is sorrowful.
emotional
It is when someone doesn't treat you well enough mentally or emotionally or when you are in a relationship with someone but they don't do things to remind You they love you anymore. So emotionally you feel un loved and neglected. That is emotional neglect in love but there can also be emotional neglect towards a child where the child isn't talked to enough or isn't looked after. Hope that helped! Quite hard to explain!!
emotional abuse
It mean physical, intellectual, emotional, and social
Child emotional abuse is a form of child abuse, but whether it is considered a felony or not depends on the laws and regulations of the specific jurisdiction. In some jurisdictions, child emotional abuse may be classified as a felony if it is severe and results in significant harm to the child's emotional well-being. In other jurisdictions, it may be classified as a misdemeanor or handled through civil proceedings rather than criminal charges. The severity of the abuse and the laws in place determine the legal consequences.
They both equally are responsible for the financial, emotional and physical well being of the child.