Why do boys dump girls saying that they just don't feel the magic anymore - and is there such a thing as 'the magic'?

Answer 1

== == It's just about chemistry. Sometimes two people meet and hit it off and other times it's a sexual thing (young men are generally after one thing). And once they have won the girl over (the young man may not mean it) they get bored, feel the "magic" has gone out of the relationship when, in truth, they just want to girl-hop.

Don't feel badly about this, but learn from it. And before you go steady with another guy, be sure he works for your attention and take the relationship slow and easy. There is nothing written in stone that say you have to do anything you don't want to (including sex) to keep your boyfriend. The more mysterious and harder to get you are, the more he'll want to be around you.

You can always tell a nice guy when he treats you with respect; listens to you; makes you laugh; your family and friends like him; and he's proud that you are with him.