Why do boys hate girls?

Answer 1

I think because we guys try to use them for our own pleasure and we be nasty that's why they don't like us if we acted more mature they wouldn't be hating us you know so there you go ppl

Well coming from a girl, we girls do not hate guys. Like that first comment says, we like it when guys are more mature and sensitive to our feelings. Not some dumb boy who is looking for making out and sex grabbing girls boobs and stuff. We are so fragile and all we ask for is for a boy who is loyal and trustworthy and will give us some respect. Is that too much to ask for? Please boys I am BEGGING you, please please please please please please please please please please please please can you love us and we will give you love in return.:) This would be most appreciated by a lot of girls out reinoculating me especially!

While I take issue with what is said above, girls stereotype guys way too much because of what is in the media. Think of Romantic Comedies like "She's the man" which typically shows stereotypes of guys who are seen to not care for girls. They only show guys interested in looks. To be honest, most guys want to have a girlfriend they can get on with and spend time with. Looks matter but not as much as girls think. I've seen a lot of my friends date girls I would regard as unattractive and friends may make fun of them secretly for this. Girls think a lot of guys are players because of what they see on TV and end up having ridiculous discussions with their friends. Now there are guys out there who don't care about women, use them and treat them badly but that's sadly a small proportion. A lot of men like women are looking for a companion, yes men may act masculine in front of their friends but that doesn't say that is them as a whole person. The problem with girls is that they read in too much in to their emotions. Instead of finding out whether a guy could be half decent, they'd rather listen to pathetic stories told by their friends. They would also judge a guy by certain actions they have made whether it be in the past or present. You can't know if a person is bad just by one moment.

The truth is a lot of girls complain about guys not being mature. When it comes to serious discussion with a girl especially alone if she is your girlfriend, guys are likely to be more mature in that situation. Girls tend to see guys being physical and behaving immaturely. The truth is that it is their way of having fun and girls may get off enjoying things like singing or chatting with their friends. This sometimes leads some girls to go for way older guys thinking they mature for their age. I think not, you'll find that in these relationships the guys find the girl immature herself because she may complain about immaturity not realizing she could be acting childish at times herself. It's very easy to criticize others without looking deeply at yourself.

To summarize, most guys are not as bad as you think they are. You just need to give some of them a chance and ignore what everyone thinks. What matters is what you think. Girls typically get annoyed with guys for being immature and they stereotype them. In all fairness a lot of guys can be more mature than girls because guys in general have more control over their emotions not clouding their judgment and reacting to situations without thought.

Answer 2

There are usually three things that you have to think about if you think a guy hates you (a girl).

1. The guy actuallyt doesn't hate you! If he spends a lot of his time making fun of you, and telling you he hates you, you might actually like you. Or even like like you. If a guy (or a girl) honestly hates you, they'll just leave you alone.

2. Guys also might just hate girl because they're not mature enough (yet) to be friends, or even like them.

3. A guy may just hate you. It happens. What you (the girl) needs to think about is why. Does he have good reasons to hate you. If so, how can you change that. Then again, you shouldn't change. Unless of course, it's a positive change.