Why do men and some women think cheating isn't a big deal?

Answer 1

People think cheating is alright because in this day and time, we feel that it's all about "me". It doesn't matter how it might hurt someone else, it's all about what feels good to me at the time. We have become a "what feels good right now" type of people and feel that we can deal with the consequences later or just ignore them. ---- Some people definitely do not think that cheating is all right.

People who do cheat don't place any value on being trusted by others. Somehow they can still manage to get upset if you don't trust them.

Answer 2

Well, I am a male, and I defiantly think that cheating is a big deal, it's one of the worst things you could do to someone else, specially someone that is opening their heart and their life to you. I don't know why someone would think that it's not a big deal.