Why do men deliberately separate sex and love?

Answer 1

men arent the only ones to do it........ ive known women to do just the same......

Now weather it be man or woman, it just comes down to a matter of what you want in life at the time .

Some people just want to enjoy sex

ANSWER:

This is an effective way of avoiding intimacy/commitment of any kind;

ie. "oh no, I love this person in this way, but I love that person in a different way. Oh boo hoo. What can I do?".

Answer 2

I don't think they're doing it on purpose. But I think Andrea Dworkin put it well: "Male sexuality, drunk on its intrinsic contempt for all life, but especially for women's lives, can run wild. Hatred of women is a source of sexual pleasure for men in its own right." She wrote that "intercourse (because of the penetration) remains a means or the means of physiologically making a woman inferior" and is "the pure, sterile, formal expression of men's contempt for women." Women they don't see as objects of both desire and hate at the same time (which can't seem be separated from his side) they feel are equal and (being more in league with men) deserving of love.