Why do men look for other women on internet dating sites and then say it's no big deal when they are in a relationship?

Answer 1

It's just not some men that do this, but some women as well. Humans were meant to interact with each other and that means getting off your butt, getting out in the world and actually creating a situation where you can ask out someone you care about. Meeting people on the net (other than friends around the world) is a waste of time when it comes to a serious relationship. You just never know who you are talking to and here is a case in point: When we meet someone in person we don't know them 100% (just look at some of the posts on this board) and heck, we don't know ourselves 100%, so where do you think that leaves us on the net. Not in a good place. Can't see the person (they could send any picture, but not one of themselves) and they can tell you what you want to hear. Some people are so lonely they will make up anything to entice that person. Some people are cruel and play games on the net, enticing girls to interact with them in order to make the guy's ego soar and the guy could have a dozen or more girls on the string re the net. The sad thing is, the guy hasn't got what it takes out in the real world. Don't cramp ALL men into this small group of people that play net games with people's feelings. There are some good people out there that are lonely and they do need friends and all of us want to feel loved and cared about. Still, it's can be a dangerous and cruel game on the net. Next guy that says that, tell him to hit the bricks! A guy like that isn't living in the real world.