Why do people become introverted avoiding others after growing up extroverted?

Answer 1

People from what I have seen become withdrawn from others because they are becoming moody and or they need help recognizing themselves. Also because they are dealing with personal problems. I agree to the first respondant and just to ellaborate; perhaps they have mixed feelings, perhaps it may not even be the problem at hand, but something else completely. It's possible that they are dealing with a more longterm intervention, they have a change in mind about their surroundings and their feelings toward life; another is that they may be changing slowly - analising their place in this world, questioning their influence, their responsibilities, their motives and their thoughts. Generally they are searching for something or just something else. I don't believe it should ever be taken personally or looked upon as antisocial. In fact it may even be progressive - by this I mean they could be entertaining thoughts that have to do with their excellence and their contribution to those around them - this sort of incident may have a more positive effect on someone than a negative one. One last thing: I wouldn't worry about it if it was happening to me, or if it was happening to my best friend. Much Respect - EvidenTKainE

Answer 2

Usually some experience in their life changes it, usually something at school in my opinion (like bullying) but not always could besomething at home as well. And as people get older and more mature they can just become more self conscious of their actions. Or some people just end up being calmer and more introverted as they get older.

Answer 3

Many people who isolate themselves feel socially awkward or incompetent in aspects of their lives. Some times they just generally don't like people. They could also have a debilitating fear of the outside world. Another common reason is that solitude may help them to collect their thoughts and rejuvenate their mind and spirit, especially if they are the empathic type to absorb other's energies.