Why do some couples stay together after one partner has cheated?

Answer 1

* This is because they care for their name in the society .To prevent this they still stay together. * Although cheating is a low and demeaning act towards a partner it can be caused by problems in the marriage, but with good communication skills some marriages can be saved, but the percentages are low. Because a person cheats does not mean they do not love their partner, but there is something the cheater needs they aren't getting at home. In many cases once a person cheats on their mate that bond of trust is gone and they will always be suspicious of their partner's actions. Some couples stay together because they may have a business venture together and a divorce could be complicated or, the person that is cheated on would rather put up with their spouse cheating because they don't have enough confidence to strike out on their own and make a life for themselves so it's more comfortable for them to put up with the cheating. There are some couples that both cheat and can live with it and others that stay together for the sake of the children.

Answer 2

The cheater has an underlying problem(s) that he/she is not dealing with and will continue to make foolish choices until he/she chooses to pursue what the underlying problem(s) are.

The cheater entered into the relationship under false pretenses; he/she was fooling him/her self, was fooling the partner, probably both.

This cheater is the one with the problem(s), the cheater is the only one who can do anything about it. He/she continues to cheat as long as they won't deal with the problem(s).