Why do you cheat when you know it is wrong it's hard to keep up with the constant lies and the numerous men yet you still continue to cheat on your husband?

Answer 1

The only reason that people continue to behave badly is that they have never had to truly face the consequences of their actions.

This is not say that they have not experienced some of the consequences. This is to say they have not fully faced them.

You do not live in a vacuum. More accurately, you live in a Pachinko machine; every action you take affects countless other people who affect countless other people who affect countless other people, and so on. The ripples of your actions will reach out to touch far more people than you are aware, and eventually those ripple will cause a storm somewhere.

Consider for just one moment how the things you do affect everyone else, every single person. The person on whom you cheat. The person with whom you cheat. The person married to the person with whom you cheat. Your children (if any). The other person's children (if any). If children are in the mix, then their friends, the classrooms in which they find themselves. The people with whom your children and your cheating partner's children cheat with. And everyone connected to them. And, this is only a simplistic view of all those affected. Space does not permit much more than a portion of that group.

A.You have some kind of pathological psychological problem that may not have anything to do with sex , but your problem is just manifesting itself in this kind of acting out. Please seek professional help immediately. You need ongoing therapy , and more help than WE can give you here. Your marriage, family, and possibly your entire future depend upon you getting help to find the root of and the solution for this problem.