Why do you push away someone you love?

Answer 1

There could be a variety of reasons but usually personal to the individual. Sometimes its because your scared of how you feel and not ready for it, you feel you don't deserve that person, thought you liked them more than you actually do, are interested in someone else, or possibly even dealing with issues that don't pertain to them but cannot deal with a relationship at the time. Those are just a variety of possible reasons but each person has their own for doing such a thing.

Answer 2

"Sometimes guys are weird...I have a boyfriend and before we were together he used to push me and so on...So if a guy is acting weird or mean to you, it means that he likes you! Hope I helped!"

I hate this answer so much that I felt the need to make an account just so I could tell you, the asker, how terrible of an answer this is. If a guy is rude to you it does NOT mean he likes you or loves you. If you interpret his actions to mean "he's just a troubled man who needs some love" you could be setting yourself up for problems later. Even little things can add up and take their toll.

I'm in a relationship where the man I care about will be loving one day/moment and treat me like crap or push me away the next. He went through some bad experiences growing up. His father died when he was just a boy, his mother was abusive, he was in a gang- the list goes on.

It is entirely possible that he loves you even though he pushes you away but this is not always the case. Decide if this is something you'll be able to deal with in a long term relationship because your guy may not change. It's been almost 18 years and my guy hasn't changed much.