Why does he not want me to meet his family after 2 years?

Answer 1

He could be hiding something, ashamed of you or ashamed of them. You have to get to the bottom of this and soon. Two years is a long time to be in a relationship and not meet the family. You need to sit down and ask him what the deal is. If he gets irritated then he's hiding something. If he says that its them, tell them you love him and wont judge him because of his family and you feel that you need to meet them. If he wont budge then you have a choice to make because he should know that you will not reflect his family off on him, you cook for him, sleep with him and deal with other stuff, why does he not think you can handle this. Move on to someone who is mature enough to show all of themselves to you.