Why doesn't the guy I like like me?

Answer 1

This doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you, but more along the lines of he has issues that he needs to work out before reaching a point of wanting someone. He may have girlfriends but he most likely isn't serious with any of them. If a guy doesn't like you for who you are as a individual then it is his problem. I'm sure you are a beautiful person and always remember that. Everyone is different, and even if you are just looking for friend you need to let someone come to you. All things take time.

ORR hes

1. blind to cute-ness

2. maybe he thinks he's supposed 2 like a certain "type" or popular girls (the mean kind, not like you)

3. maybe he doesnt want it to be obvious and hes playing hard to get? this ones a good guess

IF NOTHING WORKS OUT get over him. if he isn't good enough to appreciate you, hes not good enough 4 u.

Answer 2

It depends on what you mean by love. Love comes in many shapes and forms and it would depend on the sort of relationship you have with this particular guy or men in general. This sort of question defers to you, that is, do you love yourself? Would it gratify you to know that a guy loves you? Sure, but it should be to a certain extent. There is a distinction between having a guy that loves you and whether or not that compensates your self worth. You have to feel right about yourself too. Have the confidence that you will find someone, but at this time, it might not be right for you. But do not dwell on it. Be happy and be your true lovely self. Because if you aren't you won't find that special guy who will love you for you. We are not meant to be lonely in this world, there is I suppose, someone out there, or many that could fit the ideal man. Be paitent. If there is someone you are interested in, but for reasons he does not feel the same way, this is more to do with him than you as a person. It is not a reflection on you. What I have found is that when one asks this sort of question, is that you mean is there something wrong with me? We are all different and have different strengths and weaknesses, more flaws than perfections. It is a matter of feeling comfortable in yourself, investing in yourself, because that is the only thing we have control over. Other things will follow.