Why is He so verbally abusive?

Answer 1

No one here can tell you. He might not know himself, really.

Whatever the reason, enjoy the lack of abuse, and get to work healing from the harm the verbal abuse did to you so you can avoid verbally abusive boyfriends in the future. New answer: I agree with the first contributor, you shouldn't worry maybe he felt regret and sorrow for what he did, but you should be over joyed that you are out of that harmful environment If you are ever in an abusive relationship again END IT! You can get very hurt many young girls die or get seriously injured from abusive boy friends/ husbands it doesn't matter if it was verbal or not IT COULD TURN PHYSICAL!!! now I'm sure you don't want that!

Answer 2

* Because he is not confident in himself. He has a low self esteem. It is their only defense, because they have been hurt in the past. They feel this is there only way to feel in control, and to protect themselves, to the point of verbally abusing that person whom has hurt them. That is their defense. * Abusive people (includes women) are the way they are because they generally have been brought up in an abusive and hostile environment and, as the above poster stated the abuser needs control to protect themselves. Abusers have harbored anger and frustration for years and while a child they had no control over their environment, but as they start to become more independent they can be anything from bullies at school to verbal/physical abusers in adulthood and the anger unleashes onto others around them.

Answer 3

He can be verbally abusive due to many different reasons. I will explain some examples. He may have grown up with a father who was verbally abusive, and he may have picked up on his father's characteristics of being verbally abusive. He may be verbally abusive because he lacks self confidence.Another reason why he is verbally abusive is because he may be trying to control you. Control in relationships may not be recognized easily,however, if you are experiencing verbal abuse you should be aware that he may be trying to control you. You should try to take actions to change his behavior, seeking help from counselors is a great way to start. Verbal abuse can effect you mentally,physically, and emotionally.

Anwer2. Verbal, emotional and physical abuse are forms of VIOLENCE. The Bible makes this point at Ephesians 4:31: Put away from yourselves every kind of malicious bitterness, anger, wrath, screaming, and abusive speech as well as everything injurious." Jehovah God does not approve of abusive speech or conduct and that victims should not accept such behavior as normal or as something that is their fault. People that belittle others just try to elevate themselves because of their own insecurities. Being a victim of verbal or physical abuse can be devastating. Do not continue to suffer in silence, hoping things will change. THEY DO NOT!!! Often a person who is abusive needs to seek professional help for something that has happened in their past that they have never dealt with. It could have been an abusive father, a molestation or something else traumatic. You can suggest that both of you go to counseling together. If he is not agreeable, ask yourself, is this really a situation you want to stay in long term. Only you can decide whether it is worth it, but know that everyone deserves to be treated with love, kindness and respect.

Answer 4

He found a new victim.