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Why is my boyfriend do munipulating things that hurt the relationship?
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∙ 14y ago
my boyfriend did the same thing.
i found out later that he was cheating on me.
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∙ 14y ago
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How do you breakup with your live in boyfriend?
Honesty is the best policy when you want to break up with your boyfriend. Sit him down and explain to him you are not happy in the relationship and want to break up. Yes, it will hurt him, but you will hurt him more if you are stuck in this relationship.
What should you do when your boyfriend wants to remain friends with his ex-girlfriend but you know it is just going to hurt your relationship?
Tell your boyfriend how you feel about it.
You hurt your boyfriend for example through things that were said and feelings that were hurt through arguments how do you repair the relationship to eliminate the awkwardness?
Well....say you're sorry...if you really mean it. Tell him how you really feel. Talk about the argument....find out where things went wrong...then try to come to a solution.
How do you change things when you got lead on in a relationship by a guy who is in love with you but you don't want to hurt him and knowing that you have a boyfriend you love?
dont be haurtless tell him im sorry i cant. explain to him that ur in a relationship with a guy u love and that ur sorry.
How do you know if your boyfriend wont hurt you?
There is no way to know for certain if a boyfriend or girlfriend will hurt you. This is why trust is an important part of every relationship. Trust means that someone believes that the other person will not intentionally cause harm.
How can you stop being jealous of everything your boyfriend does?
You just have to learn to be tolerant of the things that he chooses to do - unless he's doing things to intentionally hurt you (ie. cheating on you). Just tell yourself that if the relationship is right then you have every reason to trust him and no reasons not to!
Do men hurt most in break up?
It all depends on how they might have felt about the person they are breaking up with. If they really loved being in a relationship with their boyfriend or girlfriend, they will hurt more than if they truly didn't care about the relationship.
What do you do when you find it hard to open up to your new boyfriend because of the pain your past relationship caused you?
Be honest with your boyfriend and tell him you were hurt bad in a past relationship and that it is had to really open up. You also need to let go of the past, not all men will hurt you. You need to stop thinking they are all the same.
What does it mean when your boyfriend says he loves you but does not want to be together?
If your boyfriend says so, then there are several things that might be happening:He has a crush on someone else and can't decide who to be with.His parents know about your relationship and they don't approve of it.He doesn't wish to hurt your feelings.Other circumstances prevent him from being in a relationship, such as insecurity or an aversion to close emotional contact.
How do you tell your boyfriend you want to go out with his best friend?
You should not hide anything from your boyfriend. Foundation of a relationship is based on trust. You should tell him if you like his best friend .You would have to be honest to your boyfriend and tell him you like his best friend and then you will have to break up. It will hurt your boyfriend, but it would hurt him more if you hid the fact from him. If you think you can still stay with your boyfriend and 'just go out' with his best friend it is doubtful your boyfriend will accept this and quite possibly will break up with you.
Is it indirect abuse if you start hurting yourself because of the distressing things that your boyfriend says?
No, that is self abuse and manipulation of your boyfriend. You may have some sort of chemical imbalance that makes you want to hit and hurt yourself when under stress. You should go see a doctor and talk to them about this. It can probably be helped with some daily medications. You will feel a ton better and not want to hurt yourself, you'll be able to deal with stressfull things better. "No, that is self abuse and manipulation of your boyfriend. You may have some sort of chemical imbalance that makes you want to hit and hurt yourself when under stress. You should go see a doctor and talk to them about this. It can probably be helped with some daily medications. You will feel a ton better and not want to hurt yourself, you'll be able to deal with stressfull things better." While I agree that self abuse is a way of munipulating your boyfriend I disagree that it is all of your fault or that he is not to blame. People who are abused do attempt to hurt themselves and even commit suicide because they are made to feel by the abuser, that they are crazy or that eveything is their fault. People who are absued usually have very low self esteem and the abuse makes it worse.
Your boyfriend screams at you is that ok?
Absolutely not!!! YOU get out of that relationship, now before you get hurt. Your boy is immature and possible mentally ill. You CANNOT fix this!
