Why narcissists hurt you?

Answer 1

By ignoring them and make them feel they are not needed or important. But some narcissist also ignore her/his environment, and thus focus only for her/himself. Thus, they may not really care if you ignore or try to hurt them.

Answer 2

Because they are deeply disturbed and get a high from spreading their pain and bringing decent people down. They feel better about themselves when everyone else is feeling miserable. They hurt normal people because normal people have feelings and empathy where as they do not. Some like the one I was involved with are also sadistic. They will inflict mental pain on you and physical pain on you or things close to you like your pets. Study their twisted evil ways and stay well clear of them.

Answer 3

Answer 1:

Completely ignore him, move on, and be happy in yourself or with another. And do NOT then in any way think about him, or he may sense it.

Remember, the best revenge is living well.

Answer 2:

You cannot hurt a Narcissist because they have no feelings like most people ! The only feelings they have is Rage,Anger and sometimes Fear....Fear of being found out and exposed....Just show that you love yourself by not being afraid of living.....

Answer 3:

According to doctors who study Narcissistic Personality Disorder, the man or woman who has that disorder does have feelings, and they are susceptible to being hurt. But that doesn't mean you have to let yourself be hurt by them. Moving on is the best course of action. It will hurt him or her, but it will free you.