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Maybe because deep down inside, the girl knows that the boy is good; he's just angry with society in general, but the girl in his life makes him happier and more content.
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Girls (and women) think they can change bad boys. They can't. This drive to "fix" them comes down through the ages. Unless it happens to be a primary goal of the boy (very rare) you will waste a lot of time, emotion, and sometimes money. Before investing too much in such an effort, get to know a boys motives and goals. Don't go by what he says, go by his past and current behavior to predict future behavior. Good luck!
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They go for bad boys because they think that he can protect her, plain and simple.
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EzraWomen like bad boys because the world is a madhouse, running on a system of hate, the opposite to God and logic. The original plan was a nice boy and nice girl would love each other honoring God (who is love) so God would give them everything. When Eve was deceived by the "devil", the god of self, human nature, the world fell into the animal, survival of the fittest hate system. It is a "war zone" where women trust in dominance instead of love, and the man, not God is the "provider and protector" The world worships the god of self and independence from God. They think he is a "real" man because he has a "self confident" "warrior" nature and remains dominant. But like Adam, he will never be as deceived as the woman so she will have the advantage and choose and control him. Most women are mercenary warriors looking for the best weapon (man) to use against people. Evil women look for security in the god of hate, not love but he doesn't exist! The only real security is in love. They want to stand behind him while he, like a sucker fights her battles. Then she remains innocent. Love has nothing to do with it. A REAL man (nice boy) is not confident but humble because he realizes he has no authority and believes in the invisible God. A REAL man has no "war spirit" and allows the girl free will and puts her on a pedestal, He is more like God so doesn't need to try and dominate her and act tough. Smart nice girls like "nice boys" because they believe in the REAL God too and trust in love, but they are rare as hens teeth.
As we grow, most of us get type-caste into roles with certain qualities and expectations attached to it. Some manage to break away from this mold and some live with those expectations. But no role is easy to fulfill especially ones we have outgrown. These imposed limitations chaff many and as they do not have the strength or sometimes even conscious awareness of it, they look for avenues to break away from them consciously and unconsciously. 'Bad' boys have the image that they live life on their own terms and are a law on to themselves. They have broken the norm and answer to no one. That is the psychology and way of life which attracts many women. Its the proverbial apple of Eden. It is the route through which they hope to live their life cause somewhere within they wish they could do the same.
While the above thought is applicable for many women, there are some who believe that there are no 'bad' men per se. 'Bad men' are just mis-guided or toughened by the wrong side of life to have become the way they are. They also think, in all honesty, that they can change such a person simply by applying ' unconditional love' to make up for all the short comings in the man's life. Thus, believing that, they fall for him to make it a project, to make him see the the 'lovable' side of life via her.
A number of studies show that "bad boys" often have superior physical characteristics which not only arouse women more intensely, but also increase hormonal production, which in turn increases fertility rates. The corollary to this, however, is that women, after procreation, would rather raise their child(ren) with "good boys" (steady working, productive, empathic, caring fathers). It's tough to have it both ways, though (except for those women who can find men willing to raise children produced from previous partnerships).
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