A narcissist is back and forth with feeling emotion for another. They want to make one feel as if they want attention and then when they get it- they push it away. This is on the account that they do not want to admit or show that they indeed do need someone. It is common for somebody with this condition to love for someone to feel sorry for them- will not admit this or have a hard time admitting this. When it comes time to look at their thinking critically- they will shut down. Counseling could be the answer, but the person must for sure want the help.
A borderline. Essentially a more emotionally reactive narcissist.
Only if you are masochistic.
Your narcissist ex may continue to send abusive messages as a way to exert control and maintain a sense of power over you. They often thrive on manipulation and may seek to provoke a reaction or elicit feelings of guilt or insecurity. Additionally, their behavior can stem from an inability to accept the end of the relationship and a desire to keep you emotionally engaged. Ultimately, it reflects their unresolved issues and need for validation.
It is important to exit an abusive relationship carefully. Slavery is abusive.
unhappiness
Yes.
It depends. Some narcissists are subtle and not very malignant. Others are malignant. The malignant ones can be very abusive.
It depends. Some narcissists are subtle and not very malignant. Others are malignant. The malignant ones can be very abusive.
Abusive behavior that specifically targets gay people is called homophobia.
Abusive behavior is not always inherited, but it can be influenced by genetics, environment, and learned behaviors. While there may be a genetic component to certain traits associated with abusive behavior, it is not a determining factor. Family dynamics, upbringing, and life experiences also play a significant role in shaping behavior.
Be disrespectful to yourself and shower hm/her with exaggerated respect. Humiliate yourself and worship the narcissist. Be his/her loyal slave. You have the choice to either respect the narcissist or yourself, because you can't respect both of you at the same time. Choose wisely. Please don't do yourself a disservice by trying to get a narcissist back into your life. You answered your own question...they dicarded you from theirs...just as they will continue to do with either you or others. You are worth much more than that. That person will not respect you or give you the love you deserve. Why would you want to re-introduce an abusive narcissist into your life? Count your blessings for having gotten rid of him!
Yes, it is. If someone is abused or sees/hears a lot of abuse when they are younger chances are they are going to be abusive themselves.