very unlikely...unless that man is VERY forgiving or is desperate
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You got to be kidding right? If your husband told you that he don't want to loose his mistress friendship, he never really wanted to stop talking to her. Do you think if you let him stay friend with his ex mistress, he wouldn't think of getting back together again? If you let it, guess what you will give them both the key to continued what they shared together. Doesn't it bothers you that this woman shared the same man with you if you will stay with your husband? You are more braver than me, because the thought of it made me sick in my stomach. Yes my husband once told me from his email while he was on the trip to the east coast and I quote " what's wrong if she become a Christian sister." And that's when I really gotten sick after reading his email to me.
The best solution for you is tell him you don't like the idea, or just tell him what you think, and if he still pursue it, maybe divorce? Think about it..
A married man who expects his mistress to just be friends is either unintelligent or has a high opinion of himself. Married men who cheat and have a mistress on the side generally use that mistress for a sexual relationship only, but some mistresses believe that the man truly loves her over his wife. The man should stop cheating and consider other people's feelings other than his own.
Spouse who cheat will never tell everything they did with their mistress, specially if this married man has to go back to his wife. He will tell some but not the one that you wanted to know. He might add or take something of to that story he told you so you will not bug him anymore.
Eventually, yes, the wife will find out about the affair. She will either find out on her own or one of their friends may see him with his mistress and tell her, but she will find out! Cheating is selfish and cheap and shows that this married man is thinking of no one but himself and his mistress is nothing special and eventually he will cheat on her as well. There are losers all around when married men/women cheat.ANSWER:Yes she will but not at first, especially if his always busy at work, or busy with his monkey business, and no time for his wife. If he don't stop before she finds out, his problem will become heavier and their life will never be normal anymore..
So he wouldn't hurt her feelings and not get slapped
mos def
I've been in this situation too, except it was with a boyfriend. I was his girlfriend at the time. My ex not only cheated on me but another girl as well. He kept TWO relationships hidden from both of us. We both dumped him and were very angry at HIM (now the other girl and I are friends). There are different situations: a) If the mistress knows he is married; b) The mistress has no idea that he is married; c) If the mistress knows that he is married then honestly she is stupid; because if you are the mistress and he is cheating on his wife, why wouldn't he do the same exact thing to you. b) If the mistress has NO idea that he was married and the wife finds out, she may confront the mistress or she may confront her husband. It depends of the wife. WOMEN ARE WORTH MORE THAN A CHEATING GUY; DONT STAY WITH THEM AND THINK THAT THEY ARE GOING TO CHANGE FOR YOU, THEY WON'T. THEY ONLY REALLY CARE ABOUT THEIR OWN NEEDS.
i guess it is normal i mean, i guess they might not be friends anymore because they're ashamed ANSWER: A 100% normal, if this man is trying to deal and undo what he done to his wife. But if this married man never care he will find the way to reconnect with his mistress. ANSWER: God yes, it is normal and only the right thing to do. I don't know the whole story of the couples and the mistress but this married man needs to correct or even rebuild his relationship to his wife. The ex mistress needs to be out of his life, she will not help him if all she wants is for them to chit chat like an old friends. The other woman already helped this man to ruined the life of his wife and her role is only his friend with benefit. Affair is fun but with consequences, its time for this ex mistress to go and stop all contact even if the married man fell in love with her, or wants to talk to her. It's a sin and immoral.
It's impossible to be friends anymore. The two of you betrayed his wife's trust. If he is back with his wife, she could never trust either of you and undoubtedly doesn't want to be in the same room with you. Too bad you didn't consider the loss before you crossed that line.
depends how hot she isANSWER;I think so especially if this married man fell in love with his mistress before he got caught cheating. Lots will be going on in his head, mostly the fun he had with her..
Married men who cheat on their wives and have a mistress generally use the mistress for a sexual relationship; feeling the freedom he is not married to her and can either go back to his wife when he is bored with the mistress or, if he is caught cheating by his wife or he decides to divorce his wife then he would want him freedom and the statistics of a married man divorcing and marrying his mistress is very low; generally he just wants to do as he pleases and doesn't care if he hurts women along the way.
As a man, I know exactly why. He has been ordered from his wife to never have contact with you again, in any way, shape , or form.....or else!
Yes. A married man will think about his ex mistress. He will also think about his friends in school, the first girl he dated, the team he was on, the first job he had, and a whole lot of other things in his past. I have no idea how often he will think of any particular thing.