Why would as narcissist marry a narcissist?

Answer 1

It is a contest of wills when a narcissist meets a narcissist. As in the case of my parents, Daddy out-narcissisted Mommy. Mommy then tortured me. As in the case of my neice and her husband, it was a 6-year row resulting in two very angry, resentful narcissists who eventually went their own way.

Answer 2

This is not only very unlikely, but could have some very violent results. Abusers usually stay away from other abusers, as they are difficult to control. The abuser may accuse the victim of being the abuser, but this is not the case. I will assume that your diagnosis is current, however, for this question.

An abuser would marry another abuser due to a history of abuse in childhood. The initial abuser would be very confused. Having grown up in an abusive environment, he has witnessed both the victim and the abuser. The child usually grows up to become one of these two options. In this case, it appears that the child grew up to become both. If this is the case, the abuser will be very confused and will probably have a split personality in which he either plays the role of the abuser or the victim. The problem will come when both abusers want to play the 'abuser' role, and neither feels like playing victim. This could become very dangerous.

Answer 3

Hell on earth! Stay clear! It's like putting 2 Pitt Bulls in a bag! Run! Marcy