Will you ever get over him cheating on you?

Answer 1

That depends on the girl. Back in the day when I was a trapper and if I caught something in one of my traps, if I liked her and she seem worth sticking around to see what happens I was faithful until the b.s. came and that is usually after she gets use to you. When she starts showing her selfishness and mistrust of me, I didn't care what she did cause it would be like, when rooster crows at the brake of dawn look out your window and I'll be gone. But when I met my wife, something strange happened, one day I looked around and the grass was greener, the sky bluer even old beat up cars had a shine to them, I was in love for the first time in my life. I thought that she was high maintenance so I worked 2 jobs to take her to exclusive places but that was not what she was about. It would take a few minutes for me to catch my breathe when I would wake in morning and she'd have an arm or a leg across me and this was no dream but there is no way I would have guess after our first meeting that I could pull something like her. I was envied and hated. Then one day I saw her with this guy who was more her speed than I and and I got weak in the knees and a pain in my chest and misty eyed, I was hurt. I was no mud duck but this guy was Mr. GQ. In the coming days she noticed my depression and her female intuition told her what it was and how to handle it and she did it in a most unique and much too intimate way to share. She put something in my lunch bag I thought was a mistake but when I related the matter at home that night she said this, "I know your secret and the way you've been doing me I don't want you thinking of no other women but me." When I told her about Mr. GQ she said she use to be with him until she paid an unexpected visit to his place one day and found 2 sets of men's pants, shoes and drawers and followed the trail to his bed room and found him in bed with another MALE. He was a Bi- guy and she said that is not her idea of a man and that she is a selfish girl and the guy she wants better give her 100% of his attention and guys like him look at their own asses more than a womens. Well we were married by the end of the year. Now here comes the point I'm making. A few years later we were on our way up to Morro Bay to spend the week end. I brought up the day I saw her with Bi-guy and told her I was glad that she told me the truth and she said this: "I don't have to lie to you cause I know that you"d forgive me for anything." You know she was right? It would brake my heart if I found out that she ever cheated on me but there is no way that I could love her one day and hate her the next.

Answer 2

Many people have experienced someone cheating on them. It is a heartbreak, but yes, an individual that has been cheated on will get over it. They go through a type of grieving process (much like losing a loved one to death) and it is the death of a relationship. The victim of the cheating is left with memories of better times and is left wondering what they did wrong to deserve this (they did nothing wrong.) After some tears and a few weeks to a month or so the victim that has been cheated on will realize just what has happened; didn't deserve it and get mad enough to stand up; dust themselves off and start going out with friends and getting back into the dating circuit. A good way to look at someone who has cheated on you is the fact they were not meant for you no matter if you feel they were and that there is someone very special in the future you will fall in love with and you will be thankful you never settled for less. Be patient and one day you will meet that special person that should be in your life.

Answer 3

yes i would get over him cheating on me cause if you don't get over him your holding a grudge and if you hold a grudge you will never get to share you love with anyone