Women who attract men who are losers?

Answer 1

Anyone can end up with a 'loser' since some losers can be very charismatic , however, I think women( or men) who have a hard time setting limits or boundaries on others are more likely to end up with a loser.

Answer

I think sometimes when people get lonely and a person comes along who is charismatic and seems to be saying all the right things a woman will give him the benefit of the doubt even if she may have the feeling all is not right with the situation. I have personally worked with some guys along the way who are complete losers but talk a good game and put on a good show, for a while at least. Some of them become like con artists. Some of them were pretty obvious about it and others were fairly skilled at hiding their true colors. I've also seen friends (past friends) fall for the stuff and make excuses for the guy. Yuk! Losers seem to have a keen instinct of honing in on women who may not be so socially sharp, are incredibly lonely, or may be vunerable for some reason. Some guys make the mistake of equating friendliness with stupidity and in those cases their mission is usually nipped in the bud.