Would you go to the person who needs you more or the person you love?

Answer 1

If you are asking about marriage... marrying someone because they need you, or you need them, is a recipe for a bad marriage.

If you are talking about a one-off good deed, I would say that it is probably worth going out of your way for someone in need.

If you are talking about a long-term situation, apart from marriage... on one side, there is the fulfillment that comes from self-sacrificially helping someone, and on the other side there is the loss of missing out on spending a slab of your life with a loved one. Without knowing more, I would say that making a long-term decision to miss out on a loved one, to help someone who is not a loved one, would probably be dysfunctional.

Answer 2

Once in a while you have got to think about yourself and love is one of the parts of life in which you should. If you were to be with the person that needs you then it would mean for you to be unhappy. However if you were with ther person you love it means this person and you will both be happy together. You may feel guilt for the person that needs you, but you need to be happy too. You can still talk to this person and in whichever way they need you can help them.

Answer 3

THE ONE YOU LOVE, ALWAYS!!!