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Wow now you ARE in a dilema. Well ask yourself this: is your friend hurting from the harsh reality that he doesn't like her back? If the answer is yes then my advice is to do nothing for now. Let her heal first before deciding whether you should do anything regarding your feelings towards the guy. Remember you do not want to ruin your friendship with your best friend. Right now you may be thinking "She's my best friend, she should be understanding!" Well that may be true. She MAY understand that you like him but WHAT IF he likes you back? Wouldn't that complicate things? The way I see it two possibilities could happen: (a) Your best friend will think of you as a traitor in her irrational state at the moment and this may cause a great friendship to end, or (b) Your best friend will 'pretend' to be happy for you while she secretly cries her head off by herself and probably would never trust a single soul ever again...which will also cause the friendship to end in a way(because let's face it if there's no trust in the friendship...what sort of friendship is it?). If the answer it no then go for it but ask your best friend first whether it's ok with her. Make sure to read between the lines. If she seems genuinely thrilled then both of you could figure out plans on how to get him to like you XD . If you're wondering whether your feelings for him is wrong then my answer is no. You can't help your feelings and no you're not betraying your best friends if you have those feelings. But always keep in mind of what she may think. Remember boys may come and go but true friendship lasts a lifetime. :)

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