The decision is up to you, and you really need to think this out carefully. Abusive situations can be very dangerous.
* Of course you have the option of giving him another chance, but I don't advice it. I don't know the details of your relationship, but I have been through abuse and studied it. I have broken a cycle and so can you. You are bound to still have feelings for him, this is very common and is known as codependency. You can do without him. Remember that you can move on and live a full and happy life without him.
* Most abusive relationships enter a chain, with the abuse getting worse each time, with random acts of small kindness in between beatings (or emotional abuse). This is all about control - watch out for it.
Good luck. Find someone who will love you for who you are.
Remember Corinthians 13.
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
If a girl is afraid to break up with her boyfriend it could be she is afraid she will not have another boyfriend in the future; she may worry about what especially his friends will say about her; she may think she may make a mistake and will not have another chance to start another relationship with him or, he may be controlling her or even verbally or physically abusive and she does not know how to walk away from him without him following her.
that you want to give him another chance
i will tell him to not do it again because that is bad. i will give him another chance.
it depens on what made you 2 separate if it was just to have a break then give him another chance
either give him another chance .. or dump him (:
You can try to be friends with him, because guys are also effected greatly by hurt. After friendship you may be able to have your boyfriend back.
i would pick the guy your not going out with take a chance with him.
I guess the best thing to do is get your boyfriend and sit and have a talk with him about the situation. You be the judge on which you can really trust him enough to give him another chance.
# If he left because you yelled at him 2. if he thought something No # If he was cheating # If he did something bad
if you are not give it a chance
There's a mulititude of reasons why it would be hard to leave an abusive relationship. In many cases it's psychological. Sometimes it's that the abused party in the relationship begins to feel like they deserve the abuse they recieve. Sometimes they reason with themselves, like..."Only one more time. I'll give them one more chance." and repeat this every time.
You will need to tell your ex boyfriend how you feel. He give you another chance and you two can date again.