You love your ex and you don't know how to get him back?

Answer 1

there is a reason that they are your ex- because it is past tense, its over!!!!! trust me, i spent two years trying to work out how to get my wife to come back. she had moved on, and i hadn't- so i could drive myself insane trying different thingsto make her come back, or accept she's gone, it's over, time to move on. another pointless exercise is trying to work out what went wrong, because that is something in the past as well. i was given this same advice by someone in the beginning, i wasn't able to follow the advice. you'll come around to this way of thinking in your own time when you are ready to let go. it's really hard, but things will get better. perhaps we could discuss this.... say, over dinner. even though that's probably not funny from where you sit, when you can see the humour in it, your well on your way to getting better. good luck

Answer 2

* No matter how badly you feel realize that many people go through breakups and the person they love no longer loves them. You can't make someone love you. As hard as this is for you learn from this relationship and realize that a breakup is much like losing a loved one to death. You have memories and you love the person. It is hard to sever yourself from those memories, but eventually after the tears, then comes blame and eventually anger you're good to go. This is when you get up and moving! Go out with friends and try to have fun so you will be out in the social scene again and meet that special person that is really meant for you.

Answer 3

If you were the one who ended the relationship, e-mail him to say you've had second thoughts.

If he doesn't reply, or if he was the one who ended it, there isn't anything you can do right now. If he isn't interested, he isn't interested.

Dress up, get out, concentrate on your work, your hobbies and your friends. Give him a few weeks to miss you (because you have VANISHED from his in-box and voicemail), and if he has any feelings left for you, he will make contact.

If you accidentally run into him socially, give a friendly wave or smile, but don't stop to speak to him. Just do whatever you were doing anyway. If he still likes you, he'll come and speak to you. If he doesn't, you don't want to look like a fool.

Answer 4

im in the same position! well, what i did i just told him!! and if he ever needs a friend im here for him.