No, they are not, because she is a bossy woman who meddles in everyone's business.
She wants the children to be proud of their name and feel superior to others.
not happy
Aunt Alexandra likes to lecture Jem and Scout about their lineage. The Finches come a higher social class than most of the characters we meet in the book, like the Ewell family and the Cunninghams. Aunt Alexandra is trying to show them that they should not really associate themselves with the lower people, as much. That is like staining a new white cloth with curry (a spice that stains and is really hard to get out).
Aunt Alexandra feels that scout and Jem are being brought up the wrong way. Atticus' parenting methods are different to what she knows, and are therefore not the right way. Throughout the book Alexandra becomes the voice of the Maycomb community in the Finch household, she held tea parties, and was racist, because that was "the norm" at that time. Atticus brings up his children like they are adults so that they are able to deal with life's difficulties from an early age, probably because he is a lawyer, and chooses to defend a black man because he knows this is the right thing to do. Because of his choice, the children are subjected to abuse from other children. Alexandra thinks (privately) that they should not be exposed to this abuse, so follows the herd and stays racist, though really she trusts her brother, and believes that he did the right thing.
Jem showed Scout a snowman made from dirt and snow to make her feel better after her disagreement with Aunt Alexandra. He even put a hat and some twigs on the snowman to make it look like Mr. Avery.
Jem tries to make Scout feel better by reassuring her that their father, Atticus, is doing the best he can and that Aunt Alexandra might not understand everything. He also suggests they go see Miss Maudie for some comfort and wisdom.
Jem tries to make Scout feel better by reassuring her that Aunt Alexandra doesn't understand the situation like they do. He reminds her of their closeness and sisterly bond, showing empathy and support. Jem also suggests they continue to stick together and not let Aunt Alexandra's words affect them.
Miss Maudie shows Scout kindness during Aunt Alexandra's tea by comforting her and offering her cake to help her feel better. Miss Maudie understands the difficulties Scout is facing and tries to make her feel more at ease in a stressful situation.
Jem made Scout try to feel better after the conversation with aunt Alexandra, by making her go up to Santa Claus because it was Christmas and everyone could use cheering up at this time of year.
Aunt Alexandra is rather pushy, and she wants to raise Scout differently than she's currently being raised. Both Atticus and Scout are sensible people, but don't feel the change is necessary, and despite his sister having the best intentions, she doesn't quite understand that they're happy the way they are, or why that is ok.
He's glad for the feminine influence on the children, but he doesn't appreciate the fact that she thinks Finches are better than every one else because of blood and he is uncomfortable about her impressing that on Jem and Scout.
He loved her!