calpurnia pulls scout in the kitchen and tels her that Walter is the guest and she should treat him with respect
Calpurnia pulls her into the kitchen and simply tells her that Walter is a guest in their household and therefore she needs to treat him with respect.
Calpurnia scolded Scout during lunch because she spoke disrespectfully to Walter Cunningham, questioning his eating habits and embarrassing him. Calpurnia wanted to teach Scout to be more polite and respectful towards guests in their home.
After Calpurnia makes Scout leave the table, she tells Scout that when she has company, she should give the guest whatever they want. Calpurnia told Scout not to reprimand their guests, no matter what, and if she did, she could eat by herself in the kitchen. Calpurnia tells Scout not to treat Walter the way she does, because he is a good boy, and just because he doesn't hold a high place in society does not mean to treat him like junk. She also tells her that Walter can "soak up the tablecloth" with syrup and she shouldn't mind since he is company. to be polite when Walter Cunningham is dining at their house and not mock his ways
Calpurnia makes Scout eat in the kitchen to teach her proper behavior and manners. She wants Scout to learn the importance of respecting different social norms and roles within their society, an important lesson for a child growing up in the racially segregated South during the 1930s.
Calpurnia is a colored lady who helps out in the Finch household. Scout like Calpurnia because she always seems to have time for Scout and listen to her. She also thinks of her as a faithful and beloved cook.
Atticus tells Scout to obey Calpurnia in Chapter 3 of "To Kill a Mockingbird." This happens during a conversation where Scout questions Atticus about why Calpurnia is considered a part of the family. Atticus explains the importance of respecting Calpurnia and following her instructions.
When Jem invites Walter Cunningham to lunch, Scout makes a big deal about him pouring syrup all over his meal. Calpurnia wants Scout to realize that you let your guests do stuff like that without making a fuss.
Scout learns that Calpurnia is proficient in reading and writing, which surprises her because she had assumed that Calpurnia was illiterate. This discovery challenges Scout's preconceived notions about Calpurnia's education and capabilities.
Calpurnia begins to call Scout "Jean Louise" instead of her nickname, Scout.
Jem is growing up and spends increasing amounts of time alone with Dill. Scout finds herself helping Cal (Scouts cook) in the kitchen. Cal understands what is going on and is more sympathetic to Scout
At the lunch table, Scout made critical remarks about Walter's eating habits and the Cunningham family's poverty. Calpurnia scolded her for her behavior. This incident taught Scout a lesson in empathy and understanding different perspectives.
Scout invites Walter Cunningham over for dinner, which angers Calpurnia because she feels that Scout is being disrespectful by not informing her beforehand. This incident disrupts the normal routines of the household and Calpurnia's expectations for Scout's behavior.