Was Okonkwo from things fall apart a good or bad father?

Answer 1

This is a subjective question. In some ways, he was a good example to his children, showing them how hard work paid off in the long run. Further, he helped heal Ezinma when she got sick, and his respect made sure his children were treated well.

He was very harsh on his children and may have stunted their growth through frequent beatings. He was a poor role model in terms of treating women with respect.

Answer 2

This is a subjective question. In most ways, as viewed through from Okonkwo, he was a bad father. Unoka did not earn enough to feed his family. He wasted money on drink. He preferred to play his Flute or drink rather than work. He did not have a good set of priorities. He borrowed money that he had no intent in repaying. He was a shame in the community, making Okonkwo ashamed by proxy.

Unoka tried to teach Okonkwo wisdom in his own ways, generally through words. Unoka was there to spend time with his son. He tried to encourage his son to enjoy life.

Answer 3

Okonkwo from "Things Fall Apart" can be seen as a complex character when it comes to fatherhood. He was strict and harsh towards his children, often showing more concern for his own reputation and pride than their well-being. His inability to show affection and understanding towards his sons ultimately led to his strained relationships with them.