It is mentioned in chapter 277 (volume 31) and in episode 30 if that is what you are thinking on.
well jiraiya dies in one of the book and it doesn't really say
That would be "The Storm" from Book 1: Water.
he meets naruto in book 10 but only really talks to him in book 11.
In the shippuden manga, 351-354, Jiraiya dies(by the hand of Pein (the Akatsuki leader) and remembers the Fourth Hokage saying he is to have a son and that he would like to name him Naruto (the main character in Jiraiya's semi-biography semi-fiction book).
No. Jiraiya wrote it and he doesn't exist.
Tsunade was the 5th hokage. You might know her by the woman with blond hair in two loose pigtails. She was Sakura's Sensei. She also had her assistant, Shizune. Tsunade was the Granddaughter of the 1st hokage and also the grand niece of the 2nd hokage. She was also Jiriya's cousin.
No. But he knows that his Master Jiraiya was making that book when he was still young and being trained as a shinobi.
Both appeared on a flashback of Jiraiya when he died against Pain i think, the flashback was about how they named naruto, that Minato and Kushina loved the character of Jiraiya's book, and the character's name of that book was "Naruto", so they named their son after that character hoping he becomes just as the character of the book, which does happen! :D
In "Naruto" Episode 125, Sakura comes out of Sasuke's room holding a book, and they almost collide as they exit. This moment adds a humorous touch to their interactions and highlights the awkwardness of their relationship.
his real name is Naruto Uzamaki Namikaze
Shippuden episode 1
Jiraiya is a Leaf Village Sannin from the anime and manga Naruto. It is unknown who his father or mother were.