Well he was rather rude by calling her "not tolerable enough" but she does seem to take it a little too far. that's just my opinion, but it shows that she can be prejudice as well -- it's not only Darcy
Darcy gave Elizabeth a letter the morning after he had proposed, and she refused, at Hunsford, in Kent. The purpose of the letter was to defend himself from the accusations she had made against him as she rejected him.
Darcy's letter causes Elizabeth to reflect on the things she thinks about both him and Wickham. She comes to the conclusion that Wickham is untrustworthy and Darcy is not as bad as she had thought.
Elizabeth feels grateful to Darcy because he helps facilitate her sister's happiness by intervening in the relationship between Jane and Bingley, despite his own reservations about their match. Additionally, she appreciates his willingness to admit his mistakes and change his behavior, ultimately proving his love and commitment to her.
Elizabeth told Darcy that she didn't want to marry him
Elizabeth was offended by Mr. Darcy at the Merryton Ball because she felt he was acting snobbish by refusing to dance with any of the ladies at the ball. Also, he made a comment to Mr. Bingley which Elizabeth overheard in which he basically said she was plain and that Jane was more attractive.
Lady Catherine opposed the idea that Elizabeth might marry Darcy so vehemently, that she travelled fifty miles to be certain it would not happen. When the marriage did take place, Lady Catherine did not attend and stopped all contact with Darcy. Eventually, however, he contacted her, at Elizabeth's bidding. She relented and visited the couple at Pemberly.
The conflict was solved after the letter which Darcy wrote to Elizabeth. It was only after reading the letter that Elizabeth started to realise her misjudgement and started to reflect and changed her opinion of Darcy. Elizabeth was able to forget about her initial prejudice of Darcy and see things from another point of view. Darcy's willingness to ditch his pride also contributed to the improvement in their relationship.
In the 1940's film Laurence Olivier played Mr. Darcy. In the 2005 version, with Keira Knightley, Matthew Macfadyen plays Mr. Darcy.
Mr. Darcy, Elizabeth, and Lady Catherine are characters of the popular novel called Pride and Prejudice. The novel was written by Jane Austin. Elizabeth made serious claims against Mr. Darcy's character. Mr. Darcy felt slighted and wrote a letter in his defense.
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Elizabeth says her love for Darcy appeared so gradually, she cannot really say when it began. She jokes that it started when she saw Pemberly, implying that she fell in love when she could see with her own eyes how rich he was, but Jane, to whom she is talking, laughs at this and asks her to be serious.
Darcy is proud of his family. He believes Elizabeth's family is not as good as his own, in some undefined way. He is proud, but he is also prejudiced. He tries very hard not to fall in love with her, but he cannot. Aside from being pretty, lively, and charming, she may be the only woman he has ever met who is unimpressed by his money. He makes his reservations about her very clear when he proposes in Hunsford, and feels wounded by the rejection he receives. So he writes Elizabeth the famous letter. We do not know much about Darcy's thoughts between then and the time he meets Elizabeth at Pemberley. I imagine he must have compared the vulgarity of Mrs. Bennet with the bad manners of his own aunt, Lady Catherine. Certainly, we can understand that he would have had the inferiority of Elizabeth's family reinforced by the news of Lydia's elopement. But in fact, he must have understood that, as much as the elopement damaged the reputation of the Bennets, his own family only missed the exact same disgrace by chance. In the end, when he says he is still in love with Elizabeth, included in the dialog are his words, "your family, much as I respect them..." As for Elizabeth, she has always been proud of her own ability to judge others, and her prejudice against Darcy is partly based on this pride. Her disgust of Darcy only increases until his proposal, and the letter he writes after being rejected. She then begins to realize that she has misjudged him. In the subsequent events, she realizes that Darcy is not who she had thought. What she had thought was pride was clearly something else. Darcy's sister is found to be shy, rather than proud, and we might wonder whether Darcy, himself, was not shy also. After Lydia's elopement, Elizabeth is mortified to find that Darcy had actually found Lydia and Wickham, and had attended the wedding. She realizes what disgust he must have felt at having to do this. She believes he has every reason not to want to see her again, and finally understands, at a point where she thinks all his love of her must be gone, that she is in love with him. Her understanding is made complete when she is told that he found Lydia and got Wickham to marry her for her own sake, despite the fact that he did not believe she would ever marry him.