Aunt Alexandra was concerned with Scout's clothing because she believed that appearance and social standing were important in maintaining their family's reputation. She wanted Scout to dress and behave in a way that reflected well on the family in the eyes of the community.
Aunt Alexandria is the aunt of Scout and Jem and the Sister of Atticus(scout and jems father).
she came to give Jem and Scout feminine influence
to influence scout to become more "ladylike" and to be a feminine influence on the kids.
Scout is upset that Aunt Alexandra won't let her visit Calpurnia because she sees Cal as part of her family. Scout values her relationship with Calpurnia and doesn't understand why her aunt is trying to keep them apart.
Aunt Alexandra believes in treating children like children. She disagrees with Atticus's approach because he treats his children more like adults. He answers all questions honestly and talks to them like they are adults.
Scout used to think that Aunt Alexandra was a snob who only cared about the family name, but as the story continues, Scout grows to appreciate Aunt Alexandra. After, hearing how much Aunt Alexandra actually loves and cares fro Atticus, and how she was actually defending him, Scout begins to think that Aunty may not be as bad as she though!
Aunt Alexandria makes Scout unhappy at meal time because she makes Scout eat at the small table. Scout wanted to eat at the big table with the adults and her brother Jem.
Aunt Alexandria places much importance on the matter of being well bred. She believes Jem and Scout should have certain "high-society" characteristics which is what she is there to help them with.
She retrieves for her frilly girl clothes for her to wear.
Atticus and Aunt Alexandra disagree over how to raise Jem and Scout, with Atticus valuing individualism and open-mindedness, while Aunt Alexandra prioritizes conformity and social status. They also disagree on the importance of family reputation and community standing, with Atticus being more concerned with personal integrity and moral values. Additionally, they have differing opinions on racial equality and prejudice in their community, with Atticus advocating for justice and equality for all, while Aunt Alexandra is more concerned with upholding traditional social norms.
Jem advises Scout to try and understand Aunt Alexandra's perspective and to be respectful towards her, even if they may not always see eye to eye. He emphasizes the importance of maintaining family harmony and avoiding unnecessary conflicts.
Atticus and Aunt Alexandra disagree about how to raise Scout. Aunt Alexandra believes in instilling traditional femininity and social status in Scout, while Atticus believes in teaching her to be independent and compassionate.