Does Russell mael have a girlfriend if so what's her name?

Answer 1

No, apparently not. Check out this page:

http://entertainment.timesonline.co.uk/tol/arts_and_entertainment/music/article3855439.ece

Towards the end of the article it says:

"The Maels guard their private lives carefully. Russell confirms that neither he nor Ron is married and neither has children. But he refutes the implication in many profiles and interviews equating their androgynous, theatrical image with being gay. "We're not gay . . . as far as we know. Ha!" Russell laughs. "No, we are not gay."

"People are surprised," Ron says, "because it is said or implied that some of the bands that we are kind of linked with - er, not romantically - are gay. I don't know what it is, there is just a flamboyant nature to what we do. A non-gay flamboyance, I guess."

So, they are neither married nor gay.