Everyone who is into BDSM is into for there own reason. The use of it is to make people happy and to make there life better. Some do it just for the fun of it on weekends and some live 24/7 in the life. There is no one way that is right to do BDSM, its just what works for each person.
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There are no statistics on this subject to give you a percentage, but in my personal experience, a majority of the lesbians I have spoken to about the matter have been interested in BDSM.
Some one who does not understand BDSM posted "being into bdsm is an unhealthy sign" this is a lie. All studies of people into BDSM have shown that most people into BDSM are happy normal people who just have kinks to there life. Most people who are into abusive relationships never get into BDSM relationships. If someone is into BDSM and there is also a abusive relationship going on all you need to do is look for the normal signs of a abusive relationship. Most BDSM couples for the most part have happy and healthy relationships but have a relationship that looks more like the idealized ones from the 1950's and may add play that would look abusive from the outside but is truly not. What I would tell people is take time to talk to both parties and look for the signs of an abusive relationship.
BBC is not much of a BDSM term.
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Pleasure and pain are linked, pain sometimes causes pleasure to increase. In short BDSM is a way for some to increase their pleasure. It's also because BDSM (or only bondage) is trust and more trust. It takes a lot of trust to put your life in somebody's hands. BDSM is a fetish, and is quite normal. It's very normal to have rape-fantasies, torture and dom/sub thoughts. People tend to think it's very unnormal, but it's really not. It's very important in BDSM that you have safeword so you keep it safe. BDSM can involve dangerous situations, and "no" is sometimes a very good yes. So, make a safeword you wouldn't normally use, like "Television" "Table" stuff like that, EASY to say. Signals can also be used. .................
i wear them cause i think they look cool. other people are into bdsm.
Leather families in BDSM are family-emulating groups of two to more people all with their own interpersonal power-exchange dynamics. Like many aspects of BDSM it is hard to pin down a single answer to what it is. Most are groups of like-minded people in the BDSM culture who provide support and structure much like an actual blood family. Some are multiamorous households, where all members are involved with one another intimately, but this is not the case with all.
Yes. Sex shops in the UK also sell 'bdsm' items.
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Best way to meet up with BDSMers and bet, play, huck up ect is to go to a bdsm site. I personaly like www.bdsmsingles.com people that are already in the life and go to the partys and clubs will most likely help you out if they like you.