16 and pregnant by 21 year old?

Answer 1

OK, so what do you want to know? I was 16 and pregnant by a 23 year old. I got an abortion, so what is it exactly that you want to know? Do your parents know, how far are you, do you need advice? What do you need to know?

Answer 2

I am sorry to hear that. You should talk with your parents and discuss your options. There are several options out there for you. If you consider adoption, be mindful that it will be difficult to grow to love the baby inside of you (despite your feelings at first, which are probably anger, fear, and everything in between) and it will be hard on you emotionally and mentally. If you want to keep your baby, you should make sure you can provide for him/her financially, emotionally, physically...in every way possible. If you love to party and go out all the time and you're not ready to give that up yet, maybe you should consider other options. Don't make your baby pay for your mistake because the baby isn't a mistake, your actions were a mistake (no matter what anyone else says the baby isn't a mistake). You will need to get a job, and figure out what expenses your parents/grandparents/father of the baby can pay for and what you will be expected to pay for, as well as a daycare situation while you are at school unless you have a family member that can watch your baby for you. Raising a baby at a young age is very difficult, but it can be one of the most rewarding things you will ever experience. I wish you the best and hope you make decisions that you will never regret.

Answer 3

as soon as you start having your period you can get pregnant be safe use protection

Answer 4

Yes definitely. Even if she has not started her periods yet, a 16 year old can definitely get pregnant