Not paralyzed -- devoid.
They only ACT like they have emotions.
A borderline. Essentially a more emotionally reactive narcissist.
so they don't have an opportunity to manipulate you and get to you emotionally.
NO!!! Narcissists don't heal. They are teflon emotionally. Just get away from them.
Depends if he is also a sadist or not.
Absolutely. Yes yes yes! One of the many horrible traits of narcissism is being emotionally unstable. The narcissist I knew very well would have horrible fits and tantrums over little things that a normal person who is emotionally stable could deal with. Narcissists are emotionally and mentally immature. I would always ask the N I hung out with when he did something stupid (which was a lot) how old are you 10? He freaked out over everything. Esp. if he didn't get his way. Not getting their way or getting what they want when they want it is usually what sets a narcissist off in the first place. So yes an emotionally unstable person could absolutely be a narcissist.
He probably can be physically faithfully but emotionally he is only faithful to one person- Himself. Walk away honey, you deserve better.
Have your LAWYER speak for you. Be professional in dress and manner. Do NOT make eye contact with the narcissist. Be truthful. Write out everything you want them to know about him and speak NON-EMOTIONALLY about his conduct... JOURNAL & DOCUMENT so you have back up.
No shes not paralyzed! (: (:(:(:(:(:(:
not in the places there paralyzed...
The cilia is paralyzed.
In my personal opinion(from experience unfortunately),narcissists equate compassion with weakness. Compassion is an enigma to a narcissist. They do feed on it however. They will push your boundries as far and as thin as you let them. They may look like adults but they are severely emotionally immature and care only for themselves.Would you date/work for/befriend "Chucky"?
Be disrespectful to yourself and shower hm/her with exaggerated respect. Humiliate yourself and worship the narcissist. Be his/her loyal slave. You have the choice to either respect the narcissist or yourself, because you can't respect both of you at the same time. Choose wisely. Please don't do yourself a disservice by trying to get a narcissist back into your life. You answered your own question...they dicarded you from theirs...just as they will continue to do with either you or others. You are worth much more than that. That person will not respect you or give you the love you deserve. Why would you want to re-introduce an abusive narcissist into your life? Count your blessings for having gotten rid of him!