Mine was both a cerebral and a somatic as well.He is 40 now (although he is not looking more than 32-35).He was a great guitarist(in my country),had three marriages and endless realationships and small affairs.He used to be very handsome (even did some modelling when younger)and he is still quite goodlooking.He used to say that he was quite foolish when he was young and even suffered from hysterical paralysis caused by participating in orgies e.t.c.Now he says that he wants to be loved (=worshiped) for his witts and soul and that he always longed for women that he would appreciate their mind and good soul.The guy brags about how he must ejaculate 2-3 times a day in order to feel right,and still tells stories about how he would relate to women with exceptional personalities no matter how they looked.He used to tell me that he would be in love with me for 150 years,that he would still desire me no matter if a carot would root on my forehead and stuff like that.I guess his need to appreciate mind would grow accordingly to how his body was changing due to time.The truth is that he is an intelligent person,very talented in music,he could be a real philosopher if he wasn't so self-absorbed.But he is still a narcissist.No matter somatic or cerebral or both,the pattern is still the same:they can't love,they are terrified that you don't find them beautiful enough or intelligent enough and they are always ready to go to the next victim.
Most Ns have some sort of fixation. That must be his.
jealous
Unless the other spouse is incredibly selfish, jealous, and insecure, yes.
Power thing? Can he see himself in the mirror at the same time?
Because narcissists have a need to shame their victims. Additionally many have fixations about sex.
Perhaps he is not well informed and knows nothing of the erotic arts. (It may have nothing to do with narcissism).
They don't feel comfortable watching them with other people around
LYING. Narcissists can't FEEL genuine emotion. They are just WORDS to him.
The narcissicistic spouse ? Cheating is always wrong, but it can be very difficult to have YOUR needs met by a person who is in love with themselves.I could not find it in my heart to condem that person.
Assuming your fiance's spouse has died or they have received an annullment, stop being jealous it's bad for you. Otherwise, don't try to marry this person because it would be adultry.
Yes!! This has even been documented. Auto-immune illnesses and worse.Get away as soon as you can.See the Related Link below for help.
Congratulations on your retirement. I have to admit I am a little jealous, but I know that you will have a new boss, and your spouse won't let you call in sick.