Those who suffer from narcissistic personality disorder can love others, including their children. However, they can feel easily offended by the smallest of slights and, in this context, are capable of neglecting iimportant duties - including the realm of parenting responsibilities. They will be capable to love them but not wholeheartedly.
Yes
Hate
Narcissists love only themselves.
No. Narcissists can be only children, middle, large families. No correlation.
They are narcissists. They are narcissistic. They have narcissism.
Yes they are.
Narcissists can be only children, middle, large families
They are already in love with the only person they will ever be in love with and that is- themselves. if it seems that they are in love with you they are not. they have become experts at faking love and sometimes, since they don't know what love feels, they mistake their need and love for attention (from which they get from their supply/mate) with the feeling they have towards their mate. Basically they think they love you but they actually love what you are giving them (attention, money etc,) not you.
Narcissists NEVER love you. They "say" they love you for a reason - sex, money, place to live...They bore easily and often date just to make you jealous and keep you lured in. LET THE OTHER WOMAN HAVE HIM AND RUN LIKE H*LL!!!
They may be nice to there children because they see them as extensions of themselves and not as"free thinking individuals." Children are just more mirrors for them to look at in vain.
Many ACONs (Adult Children of Narcissists) have FLEAS... behaviors picked up from the NParent. With therapy and work they can be overcome.
Remember that the children of narcissists go through more hell than anyone else who may be involved with them. My husband has an exwife that has behaved in much the same way as you yourself have described. If you sincerely love the man you are with, than you must try to reach out to his children and show them the love that they aren't receiving from her. DON'T trash their mother in front of them. Children have a natural instinctual need to defend their parents no matter how awful they are. They will thank you for it in the end. As well as show them love, you must take control of the public humiliation that is given out from their mother. She will never stop until you stand up to her. Narcissists only respect those they fear and abuse all others. That means fighting fire with fire. Call her out in public with her nasty behaviour. Make sure you are surrounded by family and/or friends for support both physical and mental. Narcissists are also extremely concerned with their images so anything you can do to tarnish it will put fear in her and hopefully force her to back off. Yes, it's a juvenile approach that would make most adults cringe but it is the only thing that works with narcissists who have you in their firing range. She is trying to belittle you in her children's eyes so as not to lose any of their "love" to a "rival."If you are persistent, she will back off. Narcissists can become passive if they realize they are fighting a losing battle. Also, get educated about the disorder. Knowledge is power.