I have a former friend who is an insecure narcissist. Because he treated his wife so poorly, she cheated on him with someone who could provide her with the emotional support that he withheld from her.
Upon learning that she cheated on him, he rejected her. Later though, he begged and pleaded for her to return to him. Luckily for her, she did no such thing. And why would she after the horrible things he said to her?
Constantly remind him you are equally important.
Narcissist can be sadistic, it feeds their ego and gives them a sense of power to devalue and discard.
NOPE. Dont count on it. Its in their nature to use and discard. To an N, they don't have a problem, YOU do and that's why theyll cheat anyway. You are an object, Do as your told or you get tossed out. They BORE very easily too... like a junkie looking for the next high, they have no more loyalty to one line of cocaine as to another....
Because the Narcissist believes that he can gain more pleasure by trashing and dumping the person - enjoying "proving" his superiority and the partner's inferiority - watching the partner suffer, and perhaps later watching her crawl back to him - than by staying with her. Everything the N does is simply for his/her own entertainment and enjoyment. Also the N believes his own hateful propaganda; probably "you'll never find anybody else and you'll come crawling back to me later" is what he is really thinking, whether it is true or not.
The past tense of discard is discarded.
If he was a narcissist, then nothing you did could ever be a good as he knew he "deserved." So he looked elsewhere, which he'll probably keep doing for the rest of his life, no matter how well the woman he's with treats him.He wanted something other than what he got from you. I think it's the same answer regardless of his psychiatric diagnosis, if any. It would be harder to please a narcissist than the average person. The person trying to please a narcissist wouldn't get empathy back, among other things, so it might be for the best to have a narcissist leave you. But I don't think the trigger for that happening is much different than any other relationship.
Discard means- to throw away or reject.
Discard has two syllables.
I will discard the paper.
Right click and select discard.
cruel boyfriendI'm sorry but, you kinda answered your own question with the question he was never shown no love nor taught how to love properly have you ever heard you can't teach an old dog new tricks answerHe may have had an unloving mother and alcoholic father but this is not what makes them N's because lots of non-narcissistic folks have this background. Also a narcissist or alot of "normal" men - you cant believe everything he tells you about his "unfaithfull" wife. N's are not capable of relating to people on a human level. This is kind of a classic with N's compaining about how unfit their ex wives were and make themselves out to be a victim. You can bet he isn't going to let on the cruel mind bending games he plays with them, how he lied to them and how cold and unfeeling he was to them. He might relate an episode about her doing such and such but what he is not telling you is the part he played, the things he did. Lastly this isn't just a narcissist thing but guys will often tell you sob stories about their past and complain about their ungratefull exes just to get you to worry about him and try harder to please him so they can better exploit - and discard you.
A narcissist will always try to exit leaving you feel as if you are the one to blame for the failed relationship. This is just in case they decide later down the road when they need you again and want to recycle you like all others before, that you will respond with with open arms and legs to allow them back in for more destruction to be had. They cant fathom you hating them when they did nothing wrong that was not just deserved. They just dont think like that unfortunately.