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How can you help an emotionally abused friend who talks about getting out of the relationship but keeps making excuses why it is never a good time?
It is very important to try and figure out what the reasons are for waiting and do they outway the reasons for leaving? Fear is usually the determing factor. Keep supporting what is best for your friend but don't attempt to make any decisions for them, with courage they will make the best decision in time.
Maybe she is in love with him and that's why she makes excuses, or maybe she just feels sorry for him. why don't you bring up everything that he put her through so she could see that her relationship is going the wrong way and she should go for someone else. I bet she could do better, and probably she deserves better too.
bye...
The first thing you have to do is BELIEVE everything she says. Also, be very supportive and patient. If you have never endured emotional abuse, it is hard for you to understand what she is going through. She is feeling very INSECURE and inadequate about herself, relationships, etc. She probably has diminshed trust also...as she is more than likely being fed "empty promises." She is probably under the impression that the "destructive" relationship is her fault and is beleiving that lie. What I needed when I finally got free (and believe me I was in your friends shoes...thinking if I changed, or if I loved him more, did more, acted better, spoke better...etc)was my friends listening to me...period! I already knew it wasn't a good relationship...but I believed in a "hope" it would turn for the better. Towards the end he was dating other women...unknown to me...or if he did tell me, it was to get me jealous to "act" better.Don't say negative things to her....she needs ABSOLUTE positive responses.
Patience is a virtue. Don't continually talk "bad" about his/her abuser, it will only drive the friend away from you. Be there for him/her in the fighting stages of the relationship, and listen and be supportive. If you do that, then your friend will trust you and openly discuss things with you. Throw out the idea of leaving a few times, but let your friend escape on their own, in due time.
What else can I help you with?
Is the emotionally abused partner in a state of denial most of the time?
It depends on the partner. My would be yes. Even after I was physical abused I still was in denial and even made up excuses for the guys behavior and I was 9 months pregnant. I believe we don't want to except that the man/women we trusted would do such a thing. Nevertheless, I kickd him out that night, we need to Acknowledge that our first reaction is denial and their is no excuses for abuse emotionally or physically. Depends on the partner. Codependent victims are in a state of denial. The abuser denies that his conduct is abusive.
How do you help someone that is emotionally abused by their husband?
Well, you should try getting to the police as fast as you can. Otherwise he will keep doing it and hurt the person.
What does Charlie remember about his relationship with his sister?
Charlie remembers getting raped and abused by his sister on a regular basis throughout their relationship
If i get verbal abused and emotionally abused can i leave the house but I'm only 14?
yes. you may. i did.
How can a boy be abused by his girlfriend?
The same way a girl can be abused by her boyfriend: Physically; Mentally; Emotionally.
If you are 14 and you are being emotionally abused in Florida can you move out?
Go to the police.
How can you have a relationship with a narcissist without feeling abused?
. You couldn't (improve on last answer, or have a relationship with a Narcissist without feeling abused).You cannot have a relationship with an abuser without feeling abused.
Was Drew Barrymore ever abused by her father?
Yes, But emotionally and ocassionally physically when she was young
How to be the one and not be the rebound relationship?
to be the one and not the rebound it would have to unexpected you would have to not want it that's how mine is, he watched me for 3 years get emotionally abused.. but we were really good friends and he loves me and has for 3 years i was with someone else
What if the father threatens and physically abuses and emotionally abuses you?
That would mean you're being abused.
What category of children in the juvenile justice system includes children who are mistreated emotionally?
abused children
How meany people get abused in a reationship?
most people get abused in a relation ship 99.9% of the worlds population get abused in a relationship
