I think you perform an online search, "uncover the truth about narcissists" and educate yourself. Its amazing what you find out about them and how easy it is to get over it once you know.
Understand that they are devoid of feelings, that a narcissist is an empty shell and that they are not real. That will help you get over the love feelings that were so intense. After all, how can you be in love with a person who isn't real. Accept what has happened. Take your life back. Know that the best revenge is to move on and be successful in your own life.
ALWAYS listen to your intuition when dating a narcissist, the RED FLAGS that tell you that maybe perhaps they are not "quite what they seem". "NO CONTACT" is the best solution. I think its important to remember that you fell in love with a mirage: the charming image that he first showed you and the promises he made. That mirage was not reality, and you didn't know it. You can forgive yourself because it's not your fault you were tricked.
Most important- forget about the narcissist, grow up, stop chasing delusions and take control of your own life. Generally, a person who cannot "stop loving" a narcissist, who has hurt them repeatedly, has their own issues. Perhaps you should speak with a mental health professional.
yes mines just did without any remorse at all,
You don't. Narcissists can't comprehend ideas like that. Just bail, quick and dirty.
Try and retrieve the incriminating video and pictures before getting out of the relationship. If that is out of the question then you are S.O.L.
You deal with the relationship on those terms or you get out of it. If you both want to continue the relationship and you can deal with the fact that he is going to sleep with men it can work, but there are always going to be problems.
These commandments deal on relationships between people, just as the first three deal with the relationship between man and God.
He just wants gratification. He isn't thinking about the needs of his partner, he just wants his partner to gratify him. That's quite narcissistic in my opinion.
If my parents were anything to go by, then no. But mebbe the woman will soo distracted by her own vanity she won't realise there is anything peculiar about her boyfriend. Spose if it's meant to be, it will be XD.
Think of all the bad things you don't like about him and he will slowly drift out of your mind.
a relationship in which your relationship always has to be better than others like in the movie "sex wars" it can never be good enough to the point where either the man and women split or they just deal with it.
Sometimes it can continue for years. A man/woman tries absolutely everything to keep the relationship running, whereas the other person just does nothing. It usually goes to a point where the person who tries gives up, and the relationship ends.
It seems he realizes what he had while he had it but does not know how to deal with a relationship or know how to keep what he had. If he was mistreating you he also may have personal issues that he has to deal with before he is able to have a healthy relationship. It is likely in your best interest to move on - you seemed to have made the right choice.
He won't. YOU hire a lawyer - let the lawyer handle it.