How do you tell your daughter she needs a bra?

Answer 1

When she's got breasts.

When you can tell from looking at her while she is clothed that she has breasts.

When she asks for one.

When her breasts start getting tender as they develop.

Answer 2

Ask her if she needs more underwear, then when your shopping ask her if she wants underwear with 'Hello Kitty' or some kind of cartoon she likes. Then if they have a pack with training Bras, and underwear, then slip it in the cart. When you get home and she asks why there are bras in the pack, then tell her that it wouldn't be an outfit if she didn't wear both, and that it's like wearing a bathing suit under your clothes.

Answer 3

You have to remember that you're mum had to go through asking her mum about this stuff too! She will probably be nice and open about it. If you really do not want to ask her there are a few alternatives:
You could leave her a note
You could get a sibling to tell her for you
You could talk to another female relative or close friend about it
Or
You could just ask her to drive you to the shop and you can duck in and get your training bra!

Even if you go with one of the alternative options i suggest you still tell her about it, because as you go through puberty you will have to talk about much more awkward things than bras! So it's important to develop a strong bond with you're mum where you can tell each other anything

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Answer 4

Hi I am in seventh grade and i remember when i asked my mom. It was SCARY! We were in the car and i made sure we were a couple of minutes away from home so that there wouldn't be an awkward silence afterwards. I recommend that also bcuz if she didnt finish talking to me about it when we got home, we could sit in the car and talk. First, be ready to have to compromise. She will most likely recommend a training bra or a sports bra. A training bra is like a bra with cups (a bra with cups is technically what is real bra is) but without the cups. It has stretchy material instead. You probably already know what a sports bra is. So, you decide that you want a bra. I recommend the car setting that i described, but if not then chose a setting that you are comfortable with. Take a deep breath (VERY IMPORTANT, trust me on this one) and say something like: " (person you are talking to), can i get a bra? I think i might need one." OR "do you think i should get a bra?" it helps if you start off with a question. GOOD LUCK! -Kate

Answer 5

When her breasts are developing. You don't want her to get embarrassed in school so if she has a growth spurt i would definitely look like she needs a bra