If narcissists can't love can they hate?

Answer 1

Yes. The most common subject of a narcissist's hate is the person who doesn't fall for his charade- the one who knows he's a faker.

Narcissists have a pattern of sucking up to people to create a circle of worshipping friends who lavish him with attention and treat him like the big shot he impersonates. He's wild, fun, generous and helpful for a while. As those people start to realize what he is, his love of them can quickly turn to hate. Normally, a narcissist moves on when their charm wears off. In another case a narcissist can develop a sometimes dangerous hatred for a person who must remain in their life in some way . . . such as a sibling.

Answer 2

My ex husband said he did not love me ever but he hated me.

New Answer-They cannot hate either....the only feelings they have ia anger,fear ....