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I have been married to a narcassistic man (4 years younger than myself) for 22 years. I have, on two occasions, left him following very disturbing behavior and treatment. My experience has proven to be a "yes" in answer to your question. It seems he stops at nothing to try to keep me. Therefore, making the final disconnection so much harder. As it is apparently "killing him" and "cruelty", from his words, that I wont give him another chance. In addition, family and friends that are closest to us keep siding and openly trying to convince me that he has truly changed. However, after the long and cruel position that I have been in until now, I am finally emotionally drained and disconnected from him. All I think about is picturing my life without him and anxious for a new a life, free from such burden, misery and discontent. So, I am planning my exit as it is the only hope for freedom. I understand now that he is what he is. And I am not willing to sacrifice my next 20 plus years, of peace, love, happiness and my health for him. A man who can never, ever be pleased. If he is your bf, thank God he's not your husband, and do everything possible to end the relationship and get away!!!!!! Id say yes- to a certain point. they always get what they want, especially if youre the one who is his "supply" and if they want you, they will not leave you alone because you've decided you've had enough.

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