Obviously you are missing something in your marriage that you seem to still long for from this previous fling. Yes this is still a form of cheating and if you want to stay with your husband the best thing to do is let it go and do not contact this person - it was a very long time ago. If your not happy in your marriage then get out there is no since staying somewhere you are not happy. You cannot have your cake and eat it too so to speak.
If you have the idea or want of cheating then chances are you may not be happy within this relationship. The best and honest thing you can do is leave before cheating and find out what you really want.
the gun there singing about is a metaphor for there relationship, the song is about cheating on there partners,(thats the "small" crime). leave me out with the waste is representing there guilt on thinking about cheating, also the phrase " if you dont shot it how am i suppose to hold it"means, if your not 100% in the relationship how are they suppose to hold it together.
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Just thinking it is not enough. Being suspicious and there's nothing there and you wont let it go can ruin your relationship so be careful. After reading your question that is all I can say. There is no proof or even hints he is cheating.
Yes.
You should talk to him about it
Red Flag to being in an abusive relationship. Especially if you have been faithful and you are constantly trying to prove it to your boyfriend while he is accusatory. Is he really cheating...you would have to do the detective work to find that out.
ANSWER: In my opinion, it will be a bad idea if you want to make your boyfriend think that you are cheating. If the two of you are not getting along and his not showing you that you are important to his life, just talk to him and lay all the things that you don't like about him. Telling him will make him realize that your relationship with him is not getting no where. Try it and you maybe surprise. Thanks.
They will get worried that you are cheating or thinking about cheating. Most women are insecure that their significant others will lose interest in them and break their heart.
In many circumstances, yes, talking to other females other than your girlfriend or wife on the Internet could be a form of a cheating. If you innocently chat a bit on Facebook or Twitter or any other site, and it's public, that's probably OK. However, if you are flirting or entering into a deep, private relationship with someone on the Internet, and if you start spending a large amount of your time thinking about a woman there and comparing her to your girlfriend or wife, that is often called having an emotional affair (or emotional cheating). This means that although you may not have done anything physical with the other woman or women, you are still behaving in every other way as if you are cheating.
Yes and if he isnt then he's thinking about doing it or he's cheating emotionally
Open and honest communication is key. Reassure your girlfriend of your commitment and loyalty to the relationship. Address any specific concerns she may have and be willing to make compromises to rebuild trust.