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Yes there is a way to hurt them..but only their pride, nothing deeper, cos they have nothing deeper.

My ex N was most "hurt" when I said my new man was more of a father to my children than he could ever be (it was in one of his yearly phone calls to see "how I was doing") Never asked about the kids, never paid a penny in child-support..just phoned in between gfs to see "how I was doing" about once a year. Sometimes twice if he had a new gf and wanted me to know.

Act as if the relationship and their attentions were as meaningless to you as your genuine love was to them. But then again, they would probably find a way to twist that in their twisted minds that you are so overcome with grief from "losing" them that you havent come to terms with the ENORMITY of losing them yet!

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