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Most guys will think they can help (wrong) or assume it is a bad habit, not a serious psychological problem. Hi Yes, I would agree that it is a very serious disorder that requires medical intervention. While a boyfriend cannot fix the problem he has only two choices: to walk away or to be supportive. Being supportive of someone who is sick and sometimes dangerously so is not something to be taken lightly, so if you decide you want to be part of the healing process you need to be prepared to read up about the disorder (I assume it is either anorexia or bulimia) and never belittle the situation by telling her to "pull herself together" or "eat something, for god's sake." If you are the boy writing this question, be aware that caring for someone through what is likely to be a pretty long ordeal is not really just a romantic notion. I tried as a 20-year-old and failed. It's long, hard and frustrating at times. If you don't think you have the stomach for repeated hospital visits and seeing your girlfriend on a drip tube, but you are worried about how people will perceive you, or how the girl will react, it would probably be better if you bit the bullet now and walked away. everyone, eventually, will understand. If you are the girl writing this and you are concerned that you will lose your boyfriend if he finds out you have an eating disorder, your first priority, having admitted to having a disorder, is to get treatment for it, because you are not much use to a really great guy if you are dead, are you? If he does walk away, believe me there will be plenty more boys for you when you are healthy again. This might be surprising, but a girl can actually get along for a while without a boyfriend. Whichever gender you are, you're in for a tough time, so I wish you well. Phil

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