What do you when you are thirteen and pregnant?

Answer 1

You're in a tough situation and are learning a hard lesson about unprotected sex. You don't want a lecture, and I'm certainly not going to give you one. I sympathize with you because I know what it's like to make mistakes and to wish things were different. That said, I'd like to offer you some hope. First of all, this pregnancy won't last forever. It may feel like you're staring down a vast, dark tunnel with no light in sight, but it isn't so. You still have a future and you still have the opportunity for happiness and contentment. Have you talked to a supportive adult? It's very important to find an adult who will be by your side, no matter what decision you make. If you feel you are capable of raising this baby, you will no doubt need help in doing it. If you feel you cannot raise this baby, there are options available for you. Some people may advise abortion. Some may advise adoption (like me). Whatever you do, make sure that it's the right thing for both you and your unborn baby. If you don't know what that is, get involved in a support group for pregnant teens or teen moms and learn about their experiences. Ask their advice. You are not alone in your predicament. Many girls are there now and many have already been there. Hang in there. Life is not over!

Answer 2

TELL YOUR PARENTS!

Don't be scared. There have been cases of 12 year olds and 11 year olds have been pregnant. Best thing to do is tell your parents. Whether in a form of speaking verbally, or through a letter, or whatever. Just tell them, and hope they give you the support that you need.

There's adoption, abortion, and keeping the kid.

It's your choice.

If you don't wanna give birth, abortion.

If you wanna give birth, but you don't wanna keep the kid, adoption.

If you want to give birth AND keep the kid,

It's not your boyfriend's choice, parents choice, best friend's choice.

It's yours.

Answer 3

You should be a great deal more sensible, so should your parents , first you must remember you are only 13 years old, your periods have just started and you are a child so keeping the baby is not at all wise. Your parents should be more understanding children will make big mistakes , so throwing you out of the house has not solved anything. Contact the agencies that help and support girls like you and do it fast.

Answer 4

That is a tough one. I wouldn't abort at all....the best decision in my opinion would be adoption. At 13 you are way to young to have a baby, got whole life ahead of you.

tell you parents, encourage them to take you to a medical doctor immediately, Immediately go to a trusted adult like your mom, school counselor, etc. and find out your options and start working toward a solution. A doctor visit is definitely in order to find out how you are doing medically. Avoid having further sex without contraception just in case it is a false alarm.

If you haven't told your mom, TELL HER....she can help, and DON'T get an abortion: it's killing a life. If you haven't told your mom you really should.....she would get mad, any mother would.....but she should help you through it.
Tell your parents and see a doctor to make sure you really are pregnant and how far along. The doctor will give you the same options all women have; keep it, adoption or abortion. The only one who can and is allowed to decide is you.

Answer 5

honest answer for you is in abortion or adoption but no 13 year old should be thinking about sex at all no matter how much she loves her boyfriend. or to talk to your mom about keeping it but its going to be hard because if you guys are both under 16 you guys can not get a job so money is going to be hard , you not going to want your mom or dad taking care of the kid all the time but you have to be responsible about what you guys both decide on doing.

Answer 6

You need to tell an adult that you trust, a teacher, a parent , and let them help you find the answers tht you need

Answer 7

Let the child live and after giving birth, go to school once again, and be a responsible mom to your kid.